How old are you? Chicago Highest education received: Heterosexual How many sexual partners have you had in your life including oral sex? Friends-with-benefits How long did you know the person before this hookup?
What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Dan had been a friend since we were both in second grade together. He was best man at our wedding and remained single so he was over at our house often and a part of our lives. Dan and I are both 53 years old and both attend the gym everyday together.
Dan and I are best friends and he is a good dependable friend to my wife. What led to it? There was no planning to this. We had all been hanging out together that Saturday which is not abnormal for us. Dan and I had been to the gym and then when we returned home my wife said she wanted to go out for dinner.
Dan did not have any plans and we all three went out. When we returned home we decided to spend the evening in our backyard above ground pool since it was a warm September evening and I had not taken the pool down for the season. My wife made a pitcher of margaritas for her and Dan while I drank beer. Dan and I were in swim trunks and my wife was wearing a white bikini that looked great on her. She also works out daily and is in fantastic shape. Seeing her in a bikini was nothing new and outside of some joking and teasing there was never any sexual energy between my wife and Dan.
Limeade, Fresca, Tequila and a can of Bourbon. What sexual behaviors took place e. How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had all been out of the pool for three or more hours and had dried off completely when we went inside at around midnight.
I had drank about five beers and Dan and my wife had drank two full pitchers of the margarita concoction and were both acting silly and it was apparent they were both fairly drunk but having a good time. I had got up to use the bathroom and when I returned to the living room Dan had moved from the recliner to sitting next to my wife on the couch where I had been.
I grabbed a beer and sat in the recliner as we all laughed and talked. As the TV became a focal point instead of background noise I could see a difference in the looks between my wife and Dan. I could also see that Dan was doing his best to position himself to conceal that he had a huge boner happening. Once in the kitchen Dan apologized and asked if I wanted him to get an Uber and go home. I told him no, to stay and he said he was feeling pretty drunk and may end up doing something he would regret.
I told him he was fine and that I was sort of aroused at seeing my wife the way she was acting. We walked back into the living room and Dan took his place back next to my wife and I sat on the other side of her on the couch.
It only took a moment or two and my wife leaned over and planted a huge kiss on Dan. Dan was obviously liking what had happened and my wife climbed up on top of his lap facing him and began to kiss him again this time very passionately. My own cock was now rock hard seeing my wife with her nipples rock hard as she got up and pulled my best friends shorts off him allowing his big cock to spring free.
I watched as my wife knelt on the floor between his legs and sucked him into her hungry mouth. I want you to fuck me. I had just stood at the side of our bed watching my wife getting fucked hard and climaxing while being filled with my best friends cock and it was incredibly hot. How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very Did you have an orgasm?
Yes, more than one Did your partner have an orgasm? How did you feel about it the next day? How do you feel about them now? Dan had fallen asleep next to my wife as they both lay together in the orgasmic bliss of their afterglow. It was a few hours later when Dan got up and walked out into the living room where I was sitting still hard and contemplating what had just occurred.
I was still drinking beer and Dan asked if I was ok. I replied yes and he asked if I was pissed. I told him no and we talked about what had happened. Dan was still naked and his cock was limp but I could see dried cum on his cock and balls and the thought of him being inside my wife was somehow erotic. That morning when my wife woke up she was incredibly horny and begged me to fuck her. She and I talked a lot about what had happened and how it occurred.
We remain good friends with Dan and our relationship has grown since the first encounter. My wife and Dan have hooked up together several more times since this night and we have had two threesomes together. Dan stayed with my wife for a week while I was out of town traveling and I thought it was nice that she had somebody there since I usually worried about her being home alone.
In retrospect, we agreed there has always been a sexual tension and dynamic between Dan and my wife but none of us knew how to approach it and feared of how it would impact our relationship. The alcohol lowered the inhibitions and things happened that had been in all of our minds for some time. What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Alcohol How intoxicated was your partner? Alcohol How wanted was this hookup for you at the time?
Very Did your partner s consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We have only discussed this with each other and not anyone outside of the three of us.
Not at all Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all Do you regret this hookup? It opened up a new area of our relationship and allowed us to explore areas we never would have discussed or talked about. Not really anything bad. Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has changed how we are as friends together and created an outlet for sharing intimacy that we would not have ever expected.
Not at all negative Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We wish we had explored this area of our friendship earlier in our relationship but until a few years ago we had kids at home and it would not have been possible. What would you like to see changed in that regard?
This was our first endeavor into casual sex. We got married before starting college and were each others only sexual partner until this. We have talked about swingers since this happened but at the moment at least are very content and full with what we have. We may try to go on a swinger cruise or to fantasy fest next year to explore it further but currently it is just fantasy and talk.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? My wife found it and read some of the stories as she searched to see if others have done the same thing we are doing. It is nice to see people being open about their experience and she asked for me to share our story since it is anonymous. You have a hookup story to share?