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One of the biggest things that stop women from talking dirty to their men is because they quite simply don't know what to say. I have listed many lines for you to try out on your man and from there you can go your own way once you know what he likes. I bet you have heard how talking dirty to your man will make sex feel a lot sexier but do you know exactly what dirty talking is? What Is Dirty Talk? Dirty talking isn't just for movies and TV program mes, you can do it too.
Whatever you like to call it;dirty talk, sexy talk, naughty talk or filthy talk, it is talk used to sexually arouse your partner and buildup sexual tension. The goal of dirty talking is to drive your man wild through the use of words and imagination to really heighten his sense and increase the pleasure of sex. The power of words and how you say those words work to heighten each of his senses and will drive him to perform at his best. Couples and lovers use dirty talking mostly during sex when they can tell each other what they want while in the heat of the moment.
However dirty talk can also be used prior to sex to build sexual tension which will then explode once your man gets you in the bedroom If you master the art of dirty talk, your man will go crazy for you and you will both enjoy a more pleasurable and exciting sex life.
Now you know what dirty talking is, I'm going to go through why you should dirty talk, how to tell whether your guy likes it, some tips on how to dirty talk and some dirty talking lines to help you get started. Talking dirty to your man doesn't just have the sole purpose of making him feel aroused. One of the main benefits is that it keeps him thinking of you and keeps him interested in you; especially if you indulge in role play.
By using different dirty talking lines and scenarios,it will keep him on his toe sand will have him constantly thinking about what you said and how you made him felt. Having this level of interest will keep him attracted to you. The other, more obvious, benefit is that you talking dirty to him will make him feel hot, sexy and aroused. As well as that, it will also make him feel desired and wanted which is important to a man in a relationship as men can sometimes feel needed which isn't an attractive factor in a relationship.
You will also get benefits out of talking dirty too What woman could say no to that! Sexual tension is the key to a steamy sex session and there is no better way to build sexual tension that to start talking dirty to him to get him in the mood. This is made even better when you are in public when he cant do anything about it, but as soon as you arrive home he can and the sex will be great after all that sexual tension you built up.
Before you dive straight into it and start writing down all the naughty things you want to say to your man, try and find out whether this is actually something that would arouse him.
Not all men are the same and so some will like dirty talking and some will cringe and could possibly even turn them off. Go into details about how you felt when he first touched your intimate areas and what you thought of him. Building Up To It Now that you know whether you guy might like dirty talking then it is time to start building up to it.
These are all questions you need to ask yourself. Another thing you can do to build up to it is touch him more often.
Couples can be very touchy in the bedroom but hardly ever touch outside of the bedroom. Before going ahead and talking dirty, make sure to practice in the mirror first without giggling. You may feel slightly silly talking to yourself in the mirror but it will help to make you feel more comfortable for when you do it for real.
This is the most natural time to talk dirty so next time you are doing the dirty with your man, say what is on your mind. I used to keep my mouth firmly close during intimate times but with time and once I felt comfortable enough, I practiced what I preached and started to say out loud the naughty thoughts that were passing through my mind such as what I wanted him to do more off or how aroused I was feeling.
I quickly realized how much more thrilling this made our sex life. It wasn't just me who learnt from this neither, my man also started to say what was on his mind too which improved how we both perform in bed. Learning new things that we enjoy doing in bed with each other is what has kept our relationship fresh and alive. Indulge In Roleplay One of the best ways to feel comfortable about talking dirty is through role play.
Find out what scenario arouses both him and you and get to work on setting the fantasy in motion. This could be something like acting out a one night stand.
Usually with one night stands, things happen fast and a lot of passion is involved. You can act out this scenario by pretending you and your guy are having a one night stand. As you are acting out this scenario, talk him through it by telling him what you are going to do to him and what you want him to do to you.
I can guarantee that doing this will make the sex great and your orgasms even greater still. This is another role playing scenario that is a very naughty but fin one to do. Pretending that you and your man are the ones having an affair doesn't mean that yours or his fantasy is to have an affair with anyone, you want to have an affair with each other. Think of Chandler and Monica from Friends who couldn't keep their hands off each at the hospital and had sex in a closet room and tried to have sex in one of the hospital beds.
They were working each other up with a lot of steamy talk which is what led to them not being able to wait. This is what you want to try and recreate. Whisper What You Want To Do To Him I have spoken a lot about talking dirty during sex but it is also good to dirty talk before sex to work up the excitement and eagerness.
The more you go into details about what it is you want him to do you or what you want to do to him, the more eager he will be and the more electrifying excitement will be in the air. Knowing that you want him to do all these naughty things but he has to wait will torture him… but in a good way. Being vocal, by moaning while making love, will be a massive turn on for your man. If he knows you are enjoying it, then he will enjoy it.
If you aren't getting pleasure from your man then tell him what you like without damaging his ego. You can do this by moving his hand to where you want it to go and move his hand in the motion you want it to go in. You can also take charge sometimes to show the positions you like to be in.
Men want to know that they are the best you have ever had in bed and by gasping and moaning while making love will show him that he is. Whatever dirty thing you have on your mind that you want to tell your man, make sure you breathlessly whisper it in his ear. Dirty talk will only become dirty talk if you are confident in what you are saying and have a seductive manner.
You can practice dirty talking in the mirror before trying it on your man to make sure your body language and voice all suggest you are ready to be seduced or you are ready to seduce him.
If you want to seduce your man with dirty talk then act dirty and seductive and not cute and girly. There is no harm in being cute and girly but there is a time and place for it and dirty talking isn't the time and place. To be even more persuasive when whispering dirty somethings in his ear, you can also gently nibble on his ear in between words. This works like a charm and will soon have him ravish you just like you had hoped he would.
Talk Like You Met In A Club This is another role playing scenario that is popular with couples who love to dirty talk so definitely try it out. You could tell how if you were in a nightclub with him, you would let him put his hands all over you while dancing or that you could build up momentum by having dry sex while dancing in the nightclub.
Nobody I the nightclub would notice as they are all too busy dancing themselves to notice the dirty things you are doing to him or he is doing to you. There is something that is sexy and dirty about nightclub which is why it makes a perfect setting for you to start talking dirty. It would build a lot of sexual momentum and excitement for when you arrive back home. Avoid Trash Talking I have spoken a lot about what to say when dirty talking but not a lot about what not to say and this is equally as important.
Trash talk can be one of those things you should avoid doing unless you and your man specifically like it. This also goes for other vocals other than words such as your actions and motions during sex. It could actually be a major turn off for him. If during sex you are making very strange facial expressions or are screaming with pleasure but he hasn't even hardly touched you yet, he is going to know you are faking.
All you need to do to let him know that what he is doing is pleasuring you is make soft gentle gasps and moans. When To Use Crude Words Dirty talk should make your blush or feel naughty but it should never offend you which are what crude words can do. To test whether he takes pleasure from crude words, use it the next time you dirty talks and watch his reaction closely.
If your man reciprocates and calls you something crude then you know he is not comfortable but enjoys it equally as much as you do. Using crude words can have the same effect as this which is why some couple take pleasure in it but it is certainly not for everyone.
Talk About Sexy Memories A great way to talk dirty to your man is by remembering the naughty things you have done in the past. This will get starting to think of the same thing which will lead to him also being aroused. While this is dirty talk, it can also have many benefits to your relationship such as bring you closer together and keeping the excitement and interest in the relationship.
Sending Racy Texts And Emails While I have spoken a lot about talking dirty when in the heat of the moment or leading up to it, we are in the 21st century and so a lot of communication is through text and email when you are both apart.
You can build up a lot of sexual tension through text when you both apart so that when you come together, the passion will be through the roof. This should then get the conversation moving towards how much you want each other. You want him to reciprocate before starting a fully-fledged dirty talking text campaign.
Once he has reciprocated, you can then start building up to the X rated stuff. Sexy Lines To Use On Your Guy While I have given you plenty of different scenarios and tips on how to talk dirty to your man, sometimes it just helps to have a few lines to get you started. I have listed 50 lines that you can use and mix up. Here is my list of dirty lines: