Get creative, and put a little spark in your relationship. Try role playing and dare to explore your body. Trust us, your partner wants it this way.
A little something about us: Sex is good for you! It may lengthen your life, boost your heart health and immune system, reduce pain and stress and improve your sleep, according to the most recent medical studies. Sex toys can be an exciting way to spice up your sexual life, whether using them by yourself or with others. There are many misconceptions about sex toys, but the truth is, people of all types use sex toys. Some choose to use them when they are alone, on their sexual partners, or on themselves while partners are present.
We live in the future people! No more taboos, no more repressions, no more hang-ups! How can I bring sex toys into my relationship? Some people may feel threatened by the thought of having sex toys added to their sexual life or they have stereotypes about who uses sex toys.
Honesty and open communication are the best strategies for talking with sexual partners about sex toys. This is a very personal choice. Our store has thousands of adult toys to choose from. Generally speaking, vibrators are battery-operated or electrically powered devices that buzz or vibrate. They are used mainly for external stimulation, so if you're looking for clitoral titillation — which most women need to climax — a vibrator is your best bet.
Some suggested types to try: Body massagers are pretty powerful and often recommended to women trying to achieve the big O for the first time. When choosing a vibrator, you'll want to consider the intensity of the sensation and the noise level the softer the material, the quieter the toy.
They have rechargeable batteries and come with multiple vibration settings for speed, intensity, pulsing, heat, etc.
If you want the feeling of penetration, you'll want to try a dildo, which resembles a penis, usually doesn't vibrate, and can be used vaginally or anally. If you want to try back-door play, make sure it has a base specifically designed so it doesn't slide up too far.
When choosing a dildo, you'll want to factor length and width into your decision. And if you're looking for G-spot stimulation, try a phallic-shaped toy with a specially curved top.
For the best of both worlds, check out the ever-popular Rabbit, a two-in-one toy: The swirling shaft offers the pleasure of penetration, while the buzzing "rabbit ears" stimulate your clitoris. We have masturbators of all types, cock rings, and vibrating penis rings you both will enjoy. Also for the adventurous we have a full line of anal toys just for men. We also have a full array of lubricants that are either water, silicone, or oil based. Our professional sales staff are familiar with all the products in the store, so don't be shy — ask or help.
Sex Toys can get expensive, so you should be well-informed before you make any purchase. And if you don't understand the purpose of a certain item, again, feel free to ask. If you are nervous and think something is comical, it's OK to show it. The first time that I went to a sex shop, I laughed a whole lot, but I did so discreetly.
Don't worry; the salespeople are used to it. Even if you think you've seen everything, you haven't. Relax and enjoy shopping in our fun and friendly store. Our staff is very polite and discreet they will make you feel comfortable and help you with any questions. Sex is so much more than just physical. Sex begins the second you meet your partner!
Guys begin by listening to your ladies. Ladies build your man up. They like to hear that they really are a super hero. Make him feel that way. Candlelight diner, a hot bath together, dim the lights, light a scented candle, give each other a massage with some Kamasutra oils. Throw a pillow or the Wedge into the mix. No, don't have sex with the pillow, that's weird. But a pillow can modify most positions by slightly altering the angle of penetration, and that can make a huge difference.
Reverse cowgirl, doggy, side, standing up, 69, legs hanging off the bed. The idea is to improvise, move around, trust us you will love it. Also try a mirror. Visuals are a strong mood enhancer. Have sex on a deadline. Give yourself 20 minutes, or if you're daring, an hour where you can have sex. Force yourselves to have foreplay until the timer goes off. Keep a pair of socks around just for sex.
Use a tie or restraints. Modify a position by tying your hands behind your back, above your head, or to the bed. Or use it as a blindfold. Limiting mobility or covering your eyes and giving control to your partner can make an old position feel totally new. It's like the espresso shot of sex modifiers. Toss in an adult toy! Using your vibrator externally while he's inside you can make even missionary awesome. You can even use it on your male partner.
Don't start popping it into holes without asking, but even holding it against his balls can produce some surprising results spoiler alert: Toys Sex can provide mind-blowing orgasms. Experiment and try different types of sex toys. Kiss while you come! This is how people make love people! Kissing during an orgasm adds an emotional intensity, like you can almost feel your partner's orgasm vibrating through you, like when you went on a field trip to the science center and all held hands while someone touched that electricity orb.
Someone sappier than me would probably describe it as two bodies becoming one though. Help him to edge. Edging sounds like something only cool kids do "Bro, do you even edge? Forcing each other to hold off from orgasm can make the eventual release much more intense and also make him last longer.
The shower, the couch, the kitchen table, the floor. Plus, having sex over the side of an armrest might feel a lot better than doing it over the side of your much shorter bed. Throw in some approved anal play. There are thousands of nerves around the anus and perineum. A little anal stimulation can go a long way. Stimulating the anal entrance can even be enough to intensify sex and this goes for both genders.
You don't need to be shoving your fists up there, just move your finger around like you're trying to recreate that ringing noise that happens when you run your finger around a wineglass. Just make sure you ask first.
People are sensitive about their butts, but once they get it they will love it. We do not judge and are open to all sexual orientations — straight, LGBT, alternative, and everything in between. So what are you waiting for? Come check us out. We hope to see you soon!