Men obsess about their bodies just like women. Too fat, too tall, too small… And we all know many are especially obsessed when it comes to their equipment. How does your guy measure up?
But every so often, women hear this question: But I was enormously attracted to him and the electricity we generated could have lit up Times Square. In that unguarded moment, I think I liked him even more for giving me a peek at his anxieties.
Do I measure up? But not the way men might think it does. In fact, women who overreach often end up returning dildos unopened, of course. Many women may initially enjoy the sight of a big guy. My friend Shari, 38, agrees. A woman may be reluctant to vault that big pole again. She confesses she was so saddle-sore after a romp with a bigger-than-usual guy that the next day she made an emergency appointment with her gynecologist.
And although they dated for three months, she refused to get back on that bronco again. You Can Really Get Hurt Anecdotes aside, accommodating an extra-large penis can result in vaginal injury. With larger girth, tearing could occur and cause bleeding. Making sex pleasurable with a well-hung honey comes down to three things: So Is Smaller Better?
Although too big can certainly be a big problem, nobody wants a pinkie-sized fellow either. Take my friend Claudia, who dated a guy with an outsized sense of himself. He stretched the truth about what he did, where he lived, what he owned.
In short, he was a showboat. When Claudia finally got into bed with him, she understood what he was compensating for. He was big and burly, and when we kissed, he literally swept me off my feet. After too many drinks, we ended up back at his place. But lo and behold, where I expected a giant redwood was Have a couple of children the old-fashioned way, and you may not be as tight down there anymore.
That can make a slender penis feel too small. Help for the Size-Challenged Toys can help. Rings and penis pumps can temporarily add girth for guys with more modest holdings.
Can he please you in other ways? Being attentive to your needs is the most important quality in a good lover, regardless of his penis size.
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