Reviewed By Adriana , October 8, If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter to learn how to make him sexually obsessed with you and only you. Click here to get it. The scene you use when you write erotica, dirty stories you whisper to your man in bed, what you visualize when right before you orgasm.
What do these things all have in common? Sexual fantasies are incredibly common. A mental fantasy provides variation from your typical sex life, which can keep things hot. While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you.
Some sexual fantasies can even be realized, even though a fantasy might not actually be something you want to do. And you can explore some fantasies with your man without having to live the exact fantasy. The following are some of the more common sexual fantasies that women have! Several studies list giving and receiving of oral sex as a common fantasy. Fortunately, we have this advice about getting your man to go down on you.
If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually obsessed with you, then you can learn these sex techniques in my private and discreet newsletter.
You'll also learn the 5 dangerous mistakes that will ruin your sex life and relationship. Opening up in such a vulnerable way can feel especially intimate and submissive for women, which is why many women like it. More on that here. Forced Sex The idea of forced sex certainly takes things up a notch. Rape fantasies are incredibly common, especially for women, but playing them out in real life comes with risks.
We also recommend a safe word or action, which is a common part of the safety practiced in BDSM. Dominance and Submission According to one study, both dominating and being dominated are among the most common sexual fantasies of both genders. Obviously, dominating your man puts you in a position of power that you might not get during your everyday life.
Submitting is also alluring to many people who have too much responsibility on a daily basis and just need to let go sometimes! Dominance and submission are just one part of BDSM — more on that in this post.
We recommend giving it a try at least once! You can learn how to be submissive here. Remember, the same rules about safety and communication apply as with a forced sex fantasy!
Bondage This sex fantasy goes quite well with dominance and submission, but you can certainly try it out on its own. Bondage symbolizes surrender, in which many people find freedom. Bondage can be light and fluffy, with fur and silks, or extreme with metal hardware and Japanese knots! Check it out here to learn how. Not everyone wants to actually have sexual contact with someone they just met. Fortunately, you can play out this fantasy with a sexual partner you do trust.
Simply meet up with him at a public place such as a bar or club. After building sexual chemistry, you could sneak off to a corner to make out, have sex in your car or even rent a hotel room for a night that fulfills your sexual needs and jump starts your sex life!
Sex in Public Speaking of having sex in your car, having sex in a public place is another common sexual fantasy! Being able to have sex in a new environment is novel, and you might have to get creative when it comes to positions Beware of public indecency laws when you have sex in public. This post has ideas about having sex outside. A threesome allows you to experience another man or woman, which can be such a rush.
When having sex with two men, you can experience double penetration. Women who are into FFM sexual fantasies are often bicurious, and a threesome enables you to experiment with the added benefit that your man is there to watch the action too. Perhaps you know another couple who wound be down with group sex or swinging! Perhaps you can touch on the parts of the fantasy that make you go wild by watching porn and discussing what you like about the actors.
Or you could add mention of that third person into your dirty talk without really inviting them into your bedroom! A sex toy can also play the part of the third person! Being Watched and Watching Do you shiver with anticipation when you think about someone watching you have sex or masturbating? Perhaps the idea of watching someone else just does it for you. You can act out this type of sexual fantasy in a variety of ways.
Perhaps you surprise him when he comes home from work by already being naked on the bed. You can really up the ante by inviting a stranger to look but not touch. Consider filming yourselves having sex. Even if no one sees the video, the fact that it exists can ramp up excitement in the bedroom. Perhaps the two of you could enjoy a trip to the local strip club as foreplay. For them, the idea of two strangers having sex in the same room makes a great sexual fantasy!
Other Sexual Fantasies Of course, there are as many sexual fantasies as there are sexual beings, and what you like might change from one day to the next! Fantasies can quickly evolve when you imagine the variations. You could even swap your partner for a beautiful woman.
Maybe you want to be a sex worker or do a striptease for you man. Perhaps you think about dancing in front of a group of lecherous men! Plus, switching roles can add variety to your fantasies, and there are an endless amount of role playing situations that you can try with your man or simply think about to get yourself off! Not only is it about experiencing your fantasy in real life, but you should be open to whatever his fantasy is, as long as it can be enacted between consenting adults.
Blow Job Tutorial Video I put together this in-depth, step-by-step instructional video that will teach you how to make your man sexually addicted to you and only you. It contains a number of oral sex techniques that will give your man full-body, shaking orgasms. If you're interested in learning these techniques to keep your man addicted and deeply devoted to you as well as having a lot more fun in the bedroom, then you may want to check out the video.
You can watch it by clicking here.