A woman should never come between a man and his mother 27 Mar Does being so desperate for human contact that I occassionally flop in to a stranger's bed make me sexually liberated?
What's interesting though, is that whilst guys and girls may have equal access to casual sex, we don't seem to have a comparable likelihood of orgasm.
I've found men can be wounded by this, but don't feel like a failure. The orgasm is not necessarily the pinnacle of sexual enjoyment, there's the emotional fulfillment of feeling sexually accomplished having a man's pleasure totally at your mercy is kind of empowering and sexual desire is far more complex than one validatory factor can account for.
Science may simply blame my menstrual cycle for influencing my sexual motivation. During the ovulatory phase women report increased sexual desire and arousal, with a preference for short-term partners. What's more, biologists have recently suggested that females are drawn to the benefits of mating with many men as it increases the genetic diversity of their offspring.
But before you get too excited at the idea that being promicuous is exactly what our DNA intended, bear in mind that Joe S. New Science on How Casual Sex is Affecting Our Children argues that millions of us are finding that the psychological baggage of hooking up is having a lasting impact.
Apparently the brain chemicals released during sex result in emotional bonding and a powerful desire to repeat the activity. We are literally becoming addicted to bed-hopping There's a lot to think about, so whatever your reasons for having a one night stand, these 10 tips cover how you should handle them: Firstly, if you're planning on pulling, clean your place before you leave. Nothing shatters tantalising sexual potential faster than the phrase "Sorry about the smell.
Skip that last glass for the road equipment failures, dehydration, clumsy condom application, enough said. Do it for the right reasons. Do not Facebook-stalk them afterwards. If you're feeling attention-starved, go hang out with friends instead. This is a drive-through, not a three-course meal. A bit of foreplay followed by two positions, max. If you wouldn't treat a girlfriend that way, don't treat a ONS that way.
The most important aspect of this is Let both parties enter the night on an equal footing. You may feel a little vulnerable, but if you don't actually see yourself having a realtionship with this person, don't waste each other's time with the promise of future engagements. Do you really want to see her again, or do you just want her to want to see you? Don't ask for her number when you have no intentions of calling. Don't suggest brunch next week.
Don't start feeling bad that you've been a hussy and attempt to quash your insecurities by pretending you're in love with me. Simply say, "I had a really fun time with you. If you go to her place, stay the night. Don't panic, she's not going to introduce you to her mum over breakfast, but if you bail minutes after sex, it can makes a woman feel a bit disposable. If she comes to your place, be a good host.
Offer a cup of coffee, but don't be too familiar what is it with men peeing with the bathroom door open after we've only just met? Deal with the immediate aftermath carefully. Caught out on a ONS? The City Concierge Company is a home supplies agency that will deliver a post-ONS care package to wherever you are in London within one hour: