Clearly the statistics have been exaggerated. A day where you have bad sex is always better than when you have no sex at all. Nevertheless, even the best of things do tend to get mundane after a certain period of time and you need to spice things up, especially when sex has turned into a routine of 5 min- utes of sex in the missionary position and turning over to pass out.
There are many ways to spice up your sex life; role playing is amongst those that require a little more effort and creativity. But you also reap the rewards. Asking your partner to put on a school girl skirt and prepare herself for a raunchy lesson might not entice her right away. Your partner might take your approach to role play- ing in two ways: You might get her to wear framed specs and hold a wooden ruler to your bum but she is also entitled to live out her fantasy of get- ting it on with a powerful CEO.
The pupil is under the instruction and discipline of the headmistress. This creates a power imbalance, which can be fun to take advantage of with a lover. The head- mistress calls the pupil to her office after school for disciplinary action. The pupil must write down every sexual thought and fantasy he has about her. Then he must read them back to the headmistress, who gets very aroused at the suggestions, which often include her.
She then gives the pupil a lesson he will never forget on how to satisfy a woman the correct way. If he gets it wrong, he may be spanked. Or he may be spanked anyway. This scenario revolves around the idea of the relationship between a woman and her male boss. While at work the boss might be in control, but the power shifts radically when things take a sexy turn and the secretary calls the shots. The secre- tary has on a pair of sexy underwear that she des- perately wants to show off to her boss.
She needs to find ways to do that while maintaining a professional demeanor. A strip tease can also be incorpo- rated into this scenario, where he cannot touch her until she says so. The idea of photographing a model in the sexiest attire or none without being allowed to touch each other is a major turn on.
You might be able to get your partner to turn into a sexy devil in front of the camera. A male photographer has a studio set up and wishes for the gorgeous model to pose for some sexy nudes. When she arrives they drink some champagne and discuss the shots. Once set up, the photogra- pher tells her how to stand and pose with whatever props he likes.
After serv- ing you your main course, the sexy waitress who has been eyeing you the entire time slips a note in your check asking you to meet her in the backroom for dessert. Waitress, tray, a spare room While they can be fun, props and costumes are not necessary. The real meat of role-play is in the interplay.
Focus on finding a role that suits you. It must be one you and your woman want to explore together — talk it over beforehand.