I thought, if people who are friends with Me believe this stuff the views people have about most porn performers are SO false it is absurd! Lots of people tell themselves that porn sex is not real sex as a way to make them feel better about themselves and their sexual proclivities.
People have ALL types of sex in the world. Some companies want to shoot certain types of sex, and some performers enjoy doing certain sex acts. Now, that being said: Think of it like this. Doing something they have trained and worked very hard t be good at, doing something on a very grand scale.
Porn sex is real sex, made by professional performers with professional production qualities. Though I hope in My lifetime people will stop referring to porn performers as something like unicorns. There are certainly differences from lots of porn and the sex you may be having in your bedroom. But you say things like, Porn sex is not real sex! All porn is the same Saying all porn is the same is like saying all music is the same because you only listen to the top 40 hits.
We have this vision that all porn involves a blonde woman opening the door and having sex with the pizza guy. Well, there is LOTS of different types of porn out there! You are most likely referring to porn you find on tube sites and free sites. I think you get my point. TONS of porn exists. People who are making alternative pornographies are generally on a much smaller scale and budget than their bigger counterpart studios in the industry. So when you find porn that really resonates with you purchase it, so the artist can continue to make it!
I know that many of you have this notion that every porn star has blue eyes, blonde hair and big fake tits, fake tan fake nails. You get the idea. Well, this could not be further from the truth. Porn performs vary in age, size, color, shape, body type and ethnicity.
The myth that all porn stars have plastic surgery is just that… a myth. Stars such as Stoya and Sasha Grey should go to prove to you that not even every famous well known porn star has plastic surgery. Of course there ARE some porn stars with plastic surgery, there are also some lawyers, doctors and waitresses with plastic surgery too!
There this thing going around the internet telling people to stop comparing their vaginas with the vaginas in porn because all porn stars have had plastic surgery done to their vaginas. I know A LOT of porn stars. The chicks I know with labial reductions etc are chicks from the body modification community, but that probably says more about My group of friends than the porn industry at large.
Women in porn are attractive. They have long legs, perfect skin, flat tummies and perfect tiny little pussies. All women fake it Another one that is just so false. Sometimes I cum 15 times in a matter of 15 minutes.
Of course, SOME women do fake orgasms, but some waitresses also smile and pretend they are happy to serve you too. In a lot of scenes women have NO orgasm nor do they even try. I guess some people mistake moaning a lot for an orgasm.
Perhaps you should educate yourself on what an actual female orgasm looks like before you scream about how every woman in porn is faking it. Yes, some women fake it, I wonder what the statistics are on women faking it in the porn industry vs. I know some porn girls who fake it. I also know A LOT of other women who actually have real orgasms on film!
I mean, 2 years ago I was involved when Nightline came to set and shot a little piece about women who produce porn. I once again invite you to check out the feminist porn awards, which features filmmakers from ALL over the country who are producing content made by women. Porn is not also only for men, TONS of women love porn too, and you know what? Some of them even love the gonzo style gangbangs that you try to tell them are not real sex.
The internet changed porn A LOT! And even BEFORE the internet there were tons of underground male gay leather magazines, and lesbian culture books and diy zines made by cool college chicks wanting to explore their sexuality in front of an audience.
Now that we DO have the internet there are literally thousands of online websites made by women, for women, for women and men, by groups of women and by solo performers who wanted control over their own images and content.
But the fact is, if you do a lot of drugs it affects your life, the way you act and the way you look. I certainly know some porn performers who use drugs recreationally, and some who abuse them. I also know some straight edge porn performers. I also know some politicians who use drugs, and some chefs who are alcoholics. The porn industry is filled with a wide variety of people. In fact I think I may have inadvertently worked at a company that this happened for. But, in said incident, company finds out performer is a junkie, company gets rid of junkie.
Nobody really wants junkies around who are desperate. Some companies even go so far as to test performers for drugs. All porn stars were the victims of childhood abuse Well, I was the victim of childhood abuse.
Does it make you feel better knowing that? Are all of your fears about broken porn stars validated now? I will refer to my aforementioned statement about the porn community being made up of an incredibly varied group of people. As a Pro Domme I have seen firsthand the healing powers of sexuality at work.
I myself have found a strength, a pride in my naked body, control over my sexuality and the way I am represented. I also know lots of folks in porn who grew up with nice families in suburbia, who went to college and got degrees, and who later in life decided they just wanted to try being in porn because it made them feel sexy, and not because they were trying to work any shit out or make any political statement. People do porn for a myriad of reasons and I do not believe that childhood abuse is a leading factor in what gets people involved with the adult industry.
WHY is this such a prevalent belief? It says a lot about our society, we are uncomfortable with women expressing their sexuality so we have to find a reason we can wrap our heads around as to why they would ever do such a thing, and we come up with: Porn stars are all rich My 91 Honda Civic and I would like to disagree! How much money do you think porn performers make? How much porn do you think we shoot! Feature dancing is awesome but only a small portion of porn stars actually get to travel and feature dance and the gigs are hardly regular or reliable.
Lots of folks have vanilla daytime jobs and do porn on the side. Some performers make a career out of hustling phone sex webcam, dvds, websites, custom videos, signings, press, selling clips etc etc etc.
Only a portion of a performers income is going to come from actually performing.