Reply to Anonymous Posted by: Firstly this is not the 30's - manscaping is pretty much the norm. The question should be what is wrong with you that you don't like it? Secondly being naughty and wearing woman's undies is not an indication of cross dressing nor being gay. It about trying something new and exciting - and female undies do feel better. Maybe you should put effort into making things more exciting in the bedroom since, by your own words, your sexual appetite doesn't match his.
Lastly, the cuckold thing - ever thought that maybe his fantasy is to be the bull in the cuckold scenario. I have been the bull to a number of cuckold couples and we all had a great time. If he does want to share you, then that's up to the two of you to decide but my word, get out the 30's, open your mind or you could find yourself alone and regretting losing a great man your words, not mine. Men fantasize, woman fantasize but it doesn't mean you definitely will follow through in the fantasies.
I often fantasize about Asian woman but in real life I have NEVER made a concerted effort to engage with one, irrespective of how "sexy" they are. Variety is the spice of life. He is not doing it in secrecy he is open about it. As long as it stays between the two of you I find it a natural act.
Some people watch porn for stimulation others do this. As long as he is loyal to you and love you I cannot see what is upsetting you. Its ok for woman t wears men's cloths act like men do things that men does what is good for the goose is good for the gaunter. Reply to Mike Posted by: Your husband is not a cross-dresser. He doesn't have a fetish either. A crossdresser likes to wear female garments, wear make-up and look like a woman. A fetish means he cannot be sexually aroused without the item under discussion.
I like to wear panties too. I like it because it's beautiful, colorful, sexy and comfortable. Men's underwear is boring, ugly, uncomfortable and doesn't do anything for me. Love being a man. I like to feel sexy though and panties does that for me.
I shave because I also like to be clean. I cannot speak for the other things. Is your husband a good husband and father? That's all that is important. Who gives anybody the right to tell anyone what they should wear under your clothes? I wonder how women will feel when they manufature ladies' underwear the same as men's. You all stop it. Let people wear what they want under their clothes. I have no desire to become a woman, wear make-up, bras and dresses.
I want to wear panties and continue to be a man, a good husband and a loving father. Your husband is NOT gay. He is not a pervert. He is not sick. He just has a fetish. Trust me, wearing your underwear is the least of the fantasies that he could have. For men, society stands firm to its standards of male-friendly fabrics and styles.
Think about how you feel in your sexy lingerie. It makes you feel like a vixen, the texture of the fabric against your skin feels delicious, doesn't it? For a man, it is exactly the same. Your husband desires you only and he desires to be more open-minded with you. If you weren't open-minded, why on earth did you have a dildo?
Indulge your man in his fantasies and he will indulge you in yours. And you DO have fantasies, everybody does. Its just not everyone who is ashamed of it. And this can be done safely with both your boundaries laid out. It is called hard and soft limits. Would you really walk away from a man who loves and desires you just because he's a fetishist??
He's not a crossdresser, he only loves your panties and he displays signs of being compersive. Try to meet him halfway, it will do your marriage a world of good. Reply to Tralalala Posted by: Maybe that is why he wears yours. I am a male, have a lovely wife and two children. Good sex life with my wife.
My wife enjoys our sex much more once i started manscaping. I wear male G-strings daily just because they are much cooler than the other men's underwear and they hold me in position much more comfortably than any other men's underwear does.
I have my fetishes but nothing feminine. But, I want to ask you, is there no way for you get your mind around this? Play with your dildo for him. Let him watch you. Perhaps watch porn with him? Let him have sex with you afterwards, and let him eat you out perhaps. Maybe force him to eat you out? I don't know what to suggest because his thing is not mine, but find out. Join him in his world and have fun. I would also stop short of a 3rd person if at all possible.
Forget about the conventional, if you can. What does it matter what you do behind closed doors. Be his personal slut and sex toy, and give him what he wants, if you can. Imagine how strong that will make your marriage. He will be yours forever. Leaving is seldom best, except if he has cheated, and from what you said that is not the case. Every relationship after this will bring its own problems.
If you love him, and you can get your mind around this, make him yours truly. If you cannot do this your marriage is probably over. Reply to damvak gmail. Specialist talks about leaving him, others here say to stay and be supportive. He is a very caring and loving husband, a good provider and he is always turned on by me, I actually cant keep up as I am do not have such a high sex drive.
I still believe something is seriously wrong, I see others accept their men that shave their pubes, no one accepts men that wear panties or want this cuckhold thing, need more esponses Reply to Anonymous 1 comment hide Posted by: And you don't have to NOT accept that your husband likes to wear your panties just because nobody else will accept their men doing so. Your husband loves you. He only wants you to meet him halfway. He wants to be more adventurous and then you take away the one thing he loves watching you do - play with your dildo.
I keep one set of shaving gear for my face and another for the other areas, and I use antibacterial powder or antifungal cream 'down there'. My wife now says I am very nice to be near and admits that that was something about which she didn't know how to approach me about when we married! Not sure why, buy our sex life became more relaxed and caring, thought that's not the main point.
Incidentally, Islam is very focused on the shaving of body and public hair for the reasons of hygeine. The Bible recommends it for cleansing, too. Coming to ladie's underwear, I have long found the plain Woolworths g-string to be more comfortable than shorts, Y-fronts, ect, as the g-string supports my parts snugly and stops them bumping about, as it were.
They are so quick and easy to rinse out too, so there are always clean and fresh ones handy. If visitors are due, I put on a pair of undershorts to avoid awkward questions at the poolside. What about the children, I hear you say? We will certainly educate our three lovely offspring about this aspect of personal hygeine when the time comes