Your email address will not be sold or shared with anyone else. Reassure her The best thing that you can do when it comes to convincing a girl to have anal sex with you is to reassure her that is will be a very pleasurable experience.
You should also make a point of telling her that lots of other girls have anal sex with guys and that they thoroughly enjoy it. The more you reassure her in this way, the more likely she is to try it out with you. Use plenty of lube If you want to make sure that the anal sex you engage in with your girl is truly pleasurable for her, it is essential that you use plenty of lube.
Choose a water-based lubricant that will make the act of having anal sex as smooth and painless as possible for her.
If the experience is very painful for her, she is unlikely to let you try it in the future. Make sure that you are very liberal with the amount of lube you apply to your penis, because you can never have enough. Make sure that you start off very slow, because otherwise it is going to be extremely painful for her. You can start to speed up and increase the intensity once she adjusts to the feeling of your penis in her butt.
One of the biggest mistakes that guys make when it comes to engaging in anal sex with a girl for the first time is not going slow enough when starting out. Show her some anal porn One great way to convince your girl that anal sex is actually a really good idea is by showing her some anal sex porn.
When she sees how much the woman in the video is enjoying being fucked in the ass, she is more likely to let you slip your cock in hers. It is imperative that you look for a video where the woman is clearly enjoying herself and not flinching in pain.
Choose the right position It is also essential that you choose the right position when it comes to anal sex. You probably want to have her riding your cock at first so she can ease herself onto it. If you want to make this experience as pleasurable as possible for her, you will definitely need to keep this in mind. There are some positions that are better than others for anal sex. If you start off on your back with her riding you on top, it is much more likely that she will really get into it quick.
You can ask her if she wants to dry doggy style once she has adjusted to riding you though. This is a sure fire way to get her into anal sex fast.
Get in her in a good mood One of the keys to getting your girl to try anal sex with you involves getting her relaxed and in as good of a mood as possible. You might even want to try lighting some candles and incense to increase your chances of a favourable response. You can also do down on her for a while, which will be sure to get her in a good mood. The whole point is that you want her to be extremely horny and receptive.
The better of a mood your girl is in, the more open to trying anal sex she is going to be. Another great tip when it comes to getting her in the mood for anal sex is to ply her with a little bit of alcohol.
Also, drinking alcoholic beverages will relax her physically, which will make the experience of anal sex more enjoyable and less painful. A lot of girls end up agreeing to anal sex after they have had a few drinks in them, so keep this in mind. Start off subtle The best possible thing that you can do to get your girl to let you try anal sex on her is to start with your fingers.
Try sticking one of your smaller fingers up her butt while you are making out or eating her pussy. If she seems to like your finger in her butt, maybe put another finger it. As long as you go slow and use plenty of lube, she should enjoy this quite a bit. Be patient and bring it up again in the future. Once you have worn her done a little bit, she should eventually come around. Most girls are very hesitant to do anal sex, so they need some convincing. With a little bit of time and cajoling, you should get your way in the end.
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