Facebook Twitter What do you actually know about anal sex? Think women hate taking it through the back door? Many women are crazy about it! And when you know how to do it right, it can even become as addictive as traditional sex. Trust, therefore, takes front stage. Here are some tips to master the act of anal sex, and get your partner to want it as much as you do!
Lube is your friend! Anal sex can be painful for a woman, especially the first time. The skin around the anus is particularly thin, and can crack easily. Vaseline or any other synthetic lubricant is essential you can find very good lubricating oils online or in pharmacies. Do not skimp — use half a bottle if you want! The anal muscles need to relax to be able to accommodate your member.
Longer foreplay is required. While kissing your partner, rub a lubed fingertip around her anus. Insert your finger and begin a slow in and out movement. The best techniqueis to start with your little finger, then build up to using the others.
The truth is, porn actresses do enemas before filming an anal sex scene. Keep some wet wipes on hand in your nightstand or under the bed. Of course, convincing your partner to do an enema in preparation for anal sex may be easier said than done. A little respect, please! Since you both need to clean up, why not hop in the shower together? Share the moment with her, pleasure her,show her that what you just did was perfectly normal. There is no shame in enjoying every part of each other.
And she needs to enjoy it as much as you do. Share your feelings about what just happened. Tell her how much you enjoyed the experience and sharing it with her. If you skip this step, you can be sure it will be your last visit to her backyard!
Anal sex is a pleasurable experience that requires trust and intimacy with your partner. With patience and time, your partner will discover the pleasure associated with anal penetration. Soon, she will ask you to pick up the pace! But do not forget that you need to stay a true gentleman! Of course, this is all called into question if your one-night-stand initiates anal sex herself. This is undoubtedly a veteran seeking the fullness and pleasure of this illicit act!
Anyway, good luck to everyone, and remember to let us know your thoughts in the comments! We look forward to hearing from you!