He has been on hormones for 8 years so his growth down there was pretty developed. Apart from the physical side, the emotional side can be pretty intense. A lot of pre-surgery trans people have issues around dysphoria during sex, and this stopped sex dead in its tracks a few times for us. That was a bit awkward, and it made me feel like shit afterward. Overall, even though he had female genitals, it was pretty much just like being with a cis guy physically. It is different because of different hardware, but still quite enjoyable.
She cums from anal quite a bit, and I enjoy it as well. Mechanically, it would be very much like regular anal, but the emotional component and feelings behind it all is like any other relationship. She was incredibly tight and we needed a lot of lube. But it was pretty great. She had a penis when we met and we did everything anally for a few months.
She took a few months maybe close to a year to recover. When we went to hook up again, she just had a vagina. It looked pretty normal, pretty cute. Honestly, it felt nice to look HR in the eyes while we fucked, not being able to do that totally removed a lot of the connection for me. I have never been with a woman with such vaginal strength. I am a bi guy CIS. He very much looks and smells like a guy.
Very muscular as well. So sex-wise for me, everything has been better. His natural lube does seem to be different. I like to think the sex has been great because we are clicking well, not because of our genders. Kissing has been the biggest deal. I just love holding him and kissing him. It was hard to get the sheer presence of it out of my mind for some reason. Super-hot and nice guy though. I definitely enjoyed myself, it was just a bit disarming, but not much was actually different we mostly did anal, but I herp derped up in his snatch for a bit and it felt pretty good, but I was unaccustomed to the angles of view that vaginal sex leads to, it was novel and a bit strange.
The only issue was, she had pubic hair growing inside of her vagina. I hooked up with a MtF, I just liked her style. She had had a lot of surgery, including a neo vagina. I wanted to try it. But the point is: I asked her about it, and it has something to do with the neo-vagina being constructed from testicle skin. There are pictures of this online. Anyway, I could feel the hair through the condom even, and I was worried about these vaginal pubic hairs causing condom breakage.
And diseases, Molly was a lolly but she got around. It was tight, it was soft, it was warm, it was very wet because we used lube! We went from chatting at a bar, to playing at a BDSM club , to fucking, in about a month and a half. We met about 4 years after she had surgery. We needed lube, but the only uncommon thing about that for me in many cases is that we needed it right at the start instead of first sometime in the middle.
And my hand around her throat. She told me she was trans, in a public place, a little while later. She was worried about what sort of reaction I might have to learning that. Our relationship went really strongly for a bit over a year and we ended up breaking up over personality meshing issues. A regular old breakup. But even by the end the sex was still great.
The surgical scar from the vulva up was a distraction, as was the unusual hip-to-waist ratio. This was at a sex club.
So she was horny, I was horny, and we got it on immediately. She was on top, and held my arms down. And not merely strong for a woman of her size. However, the surgical scar from the vulva up was a distraction, as was the unusual hip-to-waist ratio. My experience is probably unusual in that I had sex with her while getting acquainted. I might repeat if I knew what to expect going in.
Most of it is about as different as sex is with any other partner. Everyone has their likes and dislikes, and you kind of fumble your way around to figuring out what works, and then do some more of that.
He smells like a man, I smell like a woman. My skin is soft and his is hairy. His dick is about the size of a pinky finger from the second knuckle. I can give him head just like any other guy, and he love it. I still have a functioning strapless that gets joyfully ignored. It no longer produces emissions and I have multiple orgasms. I particularly enjoy having things put in my inguinal canal.
It hits all of the important nerves and has enough space to fit a thumb. We both went from being horny and wanting something inside of us to wanting to grind on things instead. Hormones still do a lot to the clitoris. I think the thing that surprised us both was how quickly our clits grew. I can actually give them head-—like giving a blowjob to a very tiny penis.
Other than that, body smells are now a thing. Even after having a shower just that day, the body smells a lot different now than it did before. And everything is very hairy. In comparison to a cis dude—the dick is just much smaller. Also, we both went from being horny and wanting something inside of us to wanting to grind on things instead. Sometimes we prefer that to trying to even bother with penetration.
Having sex with a mtf transsexual was like having the best of both worlds: I was in Australia and had always been interested so I decided why not. Besides the fact that she was an escort it was actually a pretty enjoyable experience. Besides having a deeper voice and being a little taller than most females, she did not look any different than any other cis female.
As for the sex, besides having a penis, it was surprisingly similar to sex with a cis female. It was actually a great experience because I was allowed to experiment with a few fantasies while still being turned on by her appearances. She has small A-cups and smells like a girl. Her testes have withdrawn back up into her body and her penis has gotten smaller. So basically she has a large clit and no vagina. There are the usual issues with anal penetration but being bisexual myself I know how to navigate these issues.
She acts like the woman that she is. I really enjoy spending time with her, even out of the bedroom. Before surgery the effects of estrogen combined with androgen male hormone blockers had transformed her breasts, hips, skin and hair and greatly affected her sex life, as well.
Most MtF women eventually lose the function of their penis due to hormone treatments, and for many this is not a problem. Receiving penetrative anal sex became much more pleasurable after hormones for my gf, and she could orgasm that way alone. I am told this is a common side effect, though not every woman experiences hormone treatments the same way. After SRS, my gf had an extended period of recovery where she slowly regained sexual feeling and the ability to enjoy vaginal sex.
She told me it was like a training period where her body reconnected with her new vagina both physically and mentally. All in all, she was very pleased and fulfilled that her body was now fully female in form and function and that translated into hot sex.
When we were dating, she was coming very close pun intended to achieving orgasm from vaginal sex and I was of course eager to help her on that journey. Honestly it was pretty hot. Sex seems to work best as a tender, sensual affair with lots of nipple stimulation. Neither of us have had surgery, though both of us experience significant dysphoria about our genitals. Money is the most significant hurdle to getting an orchiectomy or vaginoplasty.