Below are 13 things every woman should know before trying butt sex: Start on your own. The key to enjoying anal sex, Van Kirk said, is being comfortable with your body and what feels good to you. Try it on your own. Be specific when choosing your first toy. Starting with the right toy is key. While anal beads or butt plugs work well for a first anal toy, Van Kirk suggested something that vibrates.
Spontaneity is not for butt play, people. Secondly, your partner needs to be looking for cues of discomfort and be open to having some feedback during the process. And not just physical but also emotional because you have a whole other level of trust with one another. Come prepared with the right, um, tools. For beginners, a big part of having butt sex is putting in some much-needed prep time.
Another important piece of the puzzle is lube. For your run-of-the-mill bedroom butt sex, water-based lubes like this or this one will work just fine. Whichever you use, make sure you use a healthy amount. Hygiene is key, people. According to Van Kirk, however you should be just fine if you follow one simple rule.
Good foods to eat before butt sex? Van Kirk said the blander the better: Enemas are a no-go. The medical procedure includes injecting liquid or gas into the rectum in order to expel waste. Start out small and slow. The more relaxed you are, the more pleasurable the experience will be. Some positions are better for beginners. Your favorite cuddling position is also the best butt sex position: Van Kirk said this side-by-side position will stop your partner from going too deep too fast.
Just make sure you have something sturdy to hold on to! A little pain is OK. The amount of pain is different for everyone, Van Kirk said, but it should never be anything above a 3 or 4 on a scale from Feeling into the sensations vs. It seems like when you try to not focus on it is when stuff goes wrong. You can have an orgasm from butt sex! The best positions to find the G-spot from the backdoor is reverse cowgirl, or standing and facing away from your partner.
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