Yader flies jets for cash, writes at Return Of Kings for pleasure, and dates American women for pain. He's a stone-cold realist, but one who manages to keep a smile on his face despite the insanity that surrounds him. He's well traveled and aspires to start a family and live a quiet life abroad someday.
It essentially boils down to a synopsis of basic psychology, proper teaching techniques, and understanding how people learn and absorb information. They are the following: Correlation Rote is the level of learning most people have about a given subject, especially when the subject is uninteresting or has very little relevance in the real world.
How one might approach an extraneous college course that is compulsory for fulfilling a degree requirement is a good example: Understanding is what happens when you combine fascinating subject matter with giving a shit.
You can see the information being presented in the rote stage has some merit to it, and therefore a concerted effort will be made to extract as much knowledge from the material as practicable. Application is when you get your feet wet and put your new found knowledge into practical use.
You implement the prescribed theories and principles, try things out, and experiment. You take the useful components that apply to you and what you want to accomplish, and you discard the non-essential bits that do little or nothing to aid you in your goals. One should never operate under the misapprehension that they know it all. How it could save your life The reason I bring all of this up is because the majority of men reading this red flag series will fall into one of two categories: The men who have dated a lot or have previous long term relationships know firsthand what happens when one has no understanding of female nature.
They are fully aware of how a woman can make a man pay dearly if he allows ignorance or idealism to obscure reality. These men will gain the most from this series: Understanding and correlation will be acquired by these men simply from exposure to the information being presented. These men—by and large—have their heads screwed on straight and have a great deal of rudimentary knowledge when it comes to females and their idiosyncrasies.
Perhaps these men are shy or still working on self improvement to get their confidence up to snuff before getting their feet wet in the dating world. The introductory article to the Red Flag Master List series discussed rape and domestic violence.
If you catch wind of a woman trying to pull this particular shit-move on you, then you should anticipate the possibility of bigger issues arising in the future. Hypochondria Or Valetudinarianism Hypochondria, for those unfamiliar with the term, is basically when somebody blows their medical problems out of proportion.
You can always tell when women are pity pandering and looking for attention by their tone and facial expressions. They will often combine exaggerated demonstrations of pain with whiny, almost baby-like voices. People who live with chronic pain or illness mention it matter-of-factly, not in a petulant, faggoty way. Why do women do this and why is it such a big deal? Well, garnering attention and sympathy from unsuspecting men are the primary reasons.
But playing the hypochondria card as a way to weasel out of pulling their weight in a relationship setting is also a major factor. These losers will use their bullshit medical excuses to get out of doing the cooking, the cleaning, going out on dates, having sex—you name it. Calling in sick is the best way to stay at home and get out of work, and calling in sick at home is the best way to get out of doing work there, too. If a woman shows signs of hypochondria early in your interactions, then you can expect this behavior to intensify as your relationship progresses.
And God help you if impregnate one of these flunkies because she will raise your children to be exactly like her: This hypochondria garbage always rubs off on the kids—always. The children created by these women suffer greatly: But the worst part of all is how these women seem to do everything in their power to turn their sons into wimpy little faggots.
Oh walk it off you pussy. Hypochondria can also be used as a soft gold digger tactic. Why pay your bills or spend your own money on food and entertainment when you can get a man to do it by playing the sick card?
This is their sneaky way of attempting to extract cash from you when meeting up in the future: They just want some sort of remuneration for letting you fuck them.
You should really be on the look out for this if you were able to bone a chick without spending too much money on her in the beginning. A Flaking Mechanism Many women will use hypochondria as a go-to excuse for flaking on you. You really should get some rest—hope you feel better soon. I just need to take some medicine. What time should I come over and should I pack a small bag? Apparently, TMJ causes jaw pain, limited range of motion of the mandible, and clicking and popping when chewing.
Now, I know some of you are probably thinking: Getting your dick sucked by a typical strong-and-independent woman is like calling a customer service help desk and having some fucker named Sandeep in Bangalore troubleshoot your problem: I made fun of her, and her useless piece of shit jaw. My derision tactics had the desired effect: To this day, I still have no idea what the hell that was all about or what she was thinking. She sounded a lot like the owl from the movie My Cousin Vinny.
It was so good and amazing. Have you ever had it before? I mean, I ended up eating almost the whole amazing bag by myself! I appreciated the fact that she was an annoying idiot, though, because did me a huge favor by divulging that information—she exposed herself as a liar. It obviously goes without saying that if this broad had the jaw strength to stuff her face with some chewy-ass turkey jerky, then she certainly had the jaw strength to stuff her face with my cock. That bitch was hilarious—I even told her so when I ditched her lying ass.
This story does have a happy ending, though. Quite a bit of time has passed since Miss Lockjaw and I had our brief little tryst, so it should come as no surprise that she went on to find herself a good man and is now happily married.
I imagine that she and her husband have a very loving, trusting, and affectionate marriage. A marriage built on mutual respect and equality; one of true love that will stand the test of time.
In fact, do you know what her doting, wonderful husband is probably doing right now? So, if you accumulate any mutual friends during a relationship with this type of woman, you can expect to lose them when you break up. This is correlation, gentlemen—please take it seriously. If a woman reveals any major issues in the beginning that turn out to be true, then that gives you a tough choice to make.
If your goal is to find a woman for the long term and have children, then you must take her medical history into serious consideration. Genetics are real, and you should want to maximize your chances of producing the healthiest offspring possible. There are no guarantees in life, but stacking the deck in your favor by choosing a woman who takes care of herself and has a clean bill of health is, without question, the wisest decision you can make.
One of the most miserable situations I can imagine would be coming home to a house full of unhealthy people who need constant care and attention. It would be heartbreaking, as well as terribly burdensome. Most guys do it backwards: