Potentially some pee, but if that bothers you, then maybe avoid sex. Venus Matters So glad this phenomena is coming out of the closet!
Because no one wants to sleep on the wet spot! Gwinnett Couple I am 51 and squirted for the first time last year. After… I am drained, and deeply satisfied. I crave a shot tequila after, its crazy! One time while I was on top, I squirted him in his face!!
We keep lots of towels on hand and I have to drink lots of water after. Re-hydration Is import IMO. I am blesses that my husband are still learning lots of fun sex stuff at our age!!! Leigh My first squirting experience was quite shocking.
It led me on a journey over several years to understand it, and come to a place where I could accept this new ability. Life experience has brought me to a very different place in my sexuality than I was just 5 years ago.
Women should embrace these orgasms, and allow themselves this level of pleasure! She had the body of a model perfectly tanned skin and the most gorgeous green eyes ive ever seen to this day! Anyway the first time she was able to fully take me it was such a turn on for both of us and a huge relief for me and her as well im guessing. I spun her around abruptly and layed her on her back she giggled excitedly as my lips met hers. As I took her shirt off and kissed my way down from her neck to her breasts teasing her nipple with my tounge before moving down to just above her pussy I stopped and looked up at her to see the her bearing the cutest devilsh grin, then went straight to work.
I have found that most of the men that I know and have read about get extremely turned on by a woman squirting when she orgasms. I can only give my experience but women do seem to be embarrassed by squirting if they are still in the early part of a sexual relationship. We are obviously doing something wrong as a society in order for women to feel this way about something so beautiful.
I should first point out that my partner and I had known each other years before but in a non romantic way so this allowed us to be a little more comfortable our first time being intimate together.
The first time that she squirted with her orgasm, I had no idea that it was going to happen. She was lying on her back diagonally on the side of the bed and I was standing up in front of her but holding her legs against my chest with her feet over both of my shoulders. But importantly, it also gives me a better position and angle to be able to reach and pleasure her G-spot with every stroke.
Some women may need that in order to squirt through penetration. And when I can take in her beauty and feel her pleasure while watching the poetic motions of her soft elegant breasts, I can also tenderly kiss the inside of her legs and it all makes me want to ensure that every motion and every movement is pleasuring every part of her in the best possible way. This very first time of being intimate together was quite magical so it did not take long at all for her to have her first orgasm together and she squirted this very first time.
The anticipation she felt had her literally gushing and I thought the warm sensation was beautiful but she was apologizing over and over. I tried to tell her how erotic, sensuous and arousing it was to feel her warmth flowing down my legs while I was still inside her but she would not allow herself to believe it. So I told her that I could not wait to feel her next orgasm, and that immediately started another orgasm after just a few seconds but then she still apologized.
I told her that I was now dying to taste her beauty and she finally reluctantly let go. She orgasmed without squirting so I began to use 2 fingers at the same time. This made her squirt with her orgasm fairly quickly and neither of us knew that an intimate experience could be so cerebrally and physically pleasurable at the same time.
She then told me she believed me and that became her favorite way to orgasm. In fact, after knowing this, whenever we had sex through penetration, I would go down on her just as her orgasms would start and it would increase the intensity of her orgasms and prolong them, without fail.
Somehow, that built up an anticipation for her that created a sexual tension so that when she orgasmed, they were really intense and long orgasms. The orgasm itself is so much a part of the mind that if she can feel that her partner cares more about her than his own release, it can be a much more beautiful physical and emotional experience and give her a better chance to experience her orgasm this way.
In my opinion based upon input I have received from women, men need to learn how to be more nurturing and that in itself will influence them to think more about what he can do to make his partner have a more pleasurable experience.
Number 2 is that they need to understand that when a woman has an orgasm after receiving oral sex for 5 to 10 minutes, it only happens in porn movies or fantasies. Lastly, if you really care about your significant other and want her to really understand how much you really care about her, then show her. Take the time and make the extra effort to find new or better ways to please her and make her happy. Love is not a noun or a Hallmark card, it is a verb, an action that requires your participation and it is one that should never end.
Like everything that is alive, if it is not nurtured, it will have a difficult time trying to survive. Leigh You hit the nail on the head. Women take a long time to get warmed up, but the reward is great when a man allows for that time.
I guarantee his experience will be much better if he just hangs in there. But having a deep emotional connection that reaches farther back than romantics is I believe a big part of it. I met my bf 16 years ago, and immediately became best friends, but we always felt more. Having this connection made me shy at first when we did finally decide to take that leap 4 months ago; I was worried that all those years of waiting had made him love me less, especially since I had already married and had a child.
Now I have no shyness except when we try something new, and he is the first man to ever give me oral. So yeah, I squirt every time he goes down on me, especially when I give it to him, because I feel it as an act of love randi. Leigh I felt like that at first, and honestly still do with some partners. It looks like you posted this awhile ago. For myself, understanding it helped me greatly. After being single for almost 5 years, 6 months ago I started dating someone exclusively.
I must say that it has been a world wind of a ride from our very first date. He makes me feel completely comfortable with him, which is a first. I have always been subconscious of myself with several things like do I look too fat to my partner naked, do I feel good to my partner, do I satisfy my partner orally, as well as wondering if I taste good to my partner.
So like the woman from the article I was never completely relaxed. It was the middle of the day and he followed me into the bedroom and when I turned around he grabbed me and started kissing me and began pulling my clothes off. He layed me on the bed and started caressing me all over. This went on for a bit which I think is what actually got me to relax. That and the way he was looking at me. Crazy as it might seem, his eyes were filled with such passion, taking every inch of my body in, that I found myself just submitting and becoming one with his touch.
He then slid his hand between my legs and started stroking and penetrating me with his fingers. I felt this amazing feeling start to build up inside of me which he figured out quickly by my breathing and the moving of my hips up toward him. His hands fell in line with me and every movement I made. I must say it was so intoxicating the feelings, emotional and physical, that came with this experience.
I am sure this will not be the first and last time this happens!! Kata Lunatika well i decided to travel alone, and on the second day i meet a guy and well next thing i remember, he was giving me an awsome oral, i reached the orgasm, and i told him 2 slow dow, but he looked at me, and say no… so he pressed a bit more and… well i love it.. Awakeningthesacredmasculine My first experience was with someone I was madly in love with.
I had been pursuing with great patience. She had ended a 2 year relationship months before so she was trying to wait. So the courting process commences. It was worth it! She kept me away yet the magnetism was undeniable. When we finally went with the energy that was between us it was extremely passionate for young lovers. The first time she squirted it was unbelievable. It can be confusing but such a turn on. For men I feel we have the question with knowing when a girl orgasms.
Of course with us its no secret. So knowing that I could give here that sort of pleasure and seeing it erupt, splash, and wet everything was sheer bliss. Still to this day she and I had more sex in one night than any other lover…. My bed would be so wet that there was no area big enough for us to sleep on.
So we had a strange and awful separation. It was a year and a half before it happened again.. Then it happened with another lover… Then another.. I was beginning to understand the physical dynamics of how to provoke that experience. Well through the years I got better and better at it. I find it easiest to do it with my hands to start…. So my experience culminated so far in a strange and wonderful gathering at a magical house. A random group of friends that I somehow seem to orchestrat gathered… Well that night something happened and some tantric energy i use that word because the girl I met was just getting into tantra descended upon the night.
I met someone who came late to the gathering and she was new to me. We had the most amazing love creating earth shaking boundary cracking sex that it was contagious. The screams of orgasm were so intense that her friends rushed in to see if she was alright….
That energy was so thick that it blew through the house and those that paired up also started having wild love tickle them. Moans and screams could be heard throughout the house it was Amazingly beautiful and life altering for all involved. That night started a moment of a sexual healer in me.