Helen found plenty of men who were cheating on their wives Image: So what kind of married man strays, and more importantly, why? To find out journalist Helen Croydon, 35, checked out maritalaffair. His photo shows him in a white shirt, leaning against a hotel wall. I keep in shape and have clean teeth!
Do I know these men inviting me to bed? No, and they make no attempt to hide it. They are among the , members on website maritalaffair. Slipping into an affair is bad enough, but who would be so calculated as to go looking? No one seemed to mention that in other profiles.
And I added an old photo which showed off my body shape in a revealing cocktail dress but my head was turned so my face was unrecognisable. By the afternoon I had messages. Reuters Others were clearly looking for a one-off notch on the bedpost.
Ages ranged from 21 to 61 years old. Want to meet attractive woman for occasional afternoon fun. A lot of the men were overweight, scruffy and unattractive, but some were handsome.
Getting a date was shockingly easy. They all suggested areas near to where they worked in different parts of central London, but none asked which area would be convenient for me. Date one - Robert Donning a fake wedding ring to appear married and wearing a summer dress and low heels, I greeted Robert, a year-old events organiser at an outdoor cafe on the South Bank. The focus became all about them. Last week I shipped her and the kids off to South Africa so this is my window of opportunity.
We could be having the best holiday but she always finds something to worry about. I deserve to have some fun. He heard about the site through a friend who he says used it to cheat on his wife a staggering 40 times. What struck me from both meetings and the many emails is that not one expressed any pangs of guilt. Considering they were looking for easy, no-strings-attached sex I found it hard to believe how demanding they were.
Many specified preferences for body type. James, 52, was an entrepreneur, starting his own social media business. He was on his second marriage of ten years with no children. He arrived in shorts and a faded casual t-shirt, with a whiff of over-applied aftershave.
Before leaving, he added: Anthea Turner is alleged to have thrown out Grant Bovey Image: Dr Pam Spurr, a relationship expert, agony aunt and author of Sex Academy, says many men find cheating easy. They say things like: Of the men I met and the scores more who I exchanged emails with it was clear none intended to leave their wives. Ironically I was left wondering whether any of them had considered communicating their feelings with their wives, rather than a complete stranger.
Ryan Giggs' wife Stacey forgave his affair with sister-in-law Image: Footballer Ashley Cole strayed during his marriage to Cheryl Image: Golfer Tiger Woods had other birdies while hitched to Erin Image: