However, there does seem to be something of a no-talk zone surrounding the conversation of male virginity. Indeed, even admitting to be being a virgin, for most men, is way beyond the realms of acceptability, which is something of a problem, really. Women, for whom virginity is a socially acceptable state of being, have access to a whole range of sources of advice, from their friends to thousands of lifestyle magazines to an endless supply of internet resources.
For men, however, the exact opposite is true, with any decent advice hidden deep beneath swathes of macho bullshit and mythology. And that, dear readers, is where we step in. Guys love to make fun of virgins by telling them all kinds of ridiculous myths about sex.
Simply be careful about who you take advice from, and make sure that your bullshit filter is on its highest possible setting. However, you learn about good sex by staying with and exploring the same woman. Serial sharks, in effect, start again from square one each time they move on to another victim. You will learn more about what makes a woman happy after only three or four times than he would after Does size matter to women, or is there more to it?
Diet can actually be an important part of your preparation for sexual intercourse. To begin with, heavy foods such as greasy meat, dairy, and potatoes should be avoided. However, there are also a number of foods that actually enhance performance, known as aphrodisiacs, that can help to really put you in the right mood. Most women will actually find that very sweet, as well as commendable, and will be happy to help you through your first time.
Whether due to overexcitement or nervousness, issues such as impotence and premature ejaculation are normal the first time. How to keep an erection up for longer in 20 ways ] 9 Take it steady.
Slow and steady is the key to a fulfilling experience. Hands, tongues, and lips have a definite part to play in sexual intercourse and, as a rule of thumb, should actually take up more time than the act itself.
The art of really turning her on ] 11 Be prepared. The best way to tell how well things are going is to check her response. Despite what a lot of guys will tell you, most women would be horrified if you tried any of those moves on them in real life.
So hold back on the money shots, and just listen to what her body is telling you instead. Women are really responsive to that kind of thing and will be happy to guide you around their bodies. Either keep at it slowly and carefully, or try a little more foreplay first. Lose yourself in the moment and each other, and experience the pleasure that can only be found in sex.
Just make sure you try and hold off for as long as possible so that she benefits as well. Just make sure you still help her across the finish line afterwards. Take a little time afterwards to cuddle up together and have a little talk. You might also learn a little about how to improve next time. Cuddling positions to be a loving cuddler ] 20 It might not be great. Liked what you just read? David Cullen is frequently described as erudite, insightful and witty — but only by himself and only after several large glasses of Rioja