No matter how fun and satisfying your sex life with your best girl is, there's something exhilarating about throwing a little danger into your routine. Wendy Strgar, author of Love That Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy , says what's hot for most people about having sex in public is how it takes you out of the realm of comfort.
It's the experience itself that's memorable. So before you start slyly suggesting that your girlfriend lift up her skirt, here are some places that experts recommend to have sex in public. AskMen does not condone illegal activity. Make sure to research whether it's OK to engage in sexual activities in a given situation before you do, as getting caught in some of these situations could lead to financial or legal repercussions.
In The Water Yes, water sex. This is not only dangerous from a health perspective, but also prevents lubrication in a big, likely-uncomfortable way. Instead, she suggests going for a well-maintained, chlorinated swimming pool. Best at nighttime, right before the hotel closes the gate, have your girl hold onto the side of the deep end while you push deep inside her from behind. Just remember to keep quiet — the slippery moans that are bound to slip out will really carry across the surface of the water.
What can be hot about opening a window or having sex against the window in a hotel, is your level of comfort. Both of you will feel more at ease since you're not, technically-speaking, outside, so the intensity level of intercourse will be more passionate.
There's also something pretty sexy about not knowing who saw you or how long they watched. Singer says that this a very popular exhibitionist fantasy for many people because being gawked at — and ahem, admired! If you want to up the ante and make it super-hot? In A Private Restaurant Or Bar Bathroom Avoid those multi-stall situations if you want to have sex at your favorite restaurant or bar and make sure to go on an off night where it's not as busy.
The key to successfully pulling off this naughty bathroom sex experience is coming prepared — she needs to easily be able to mount you, and you need to be comfortable sitting down in a not-always-sanitary situation.
Keep your noise level in check if you don't want the bartender cutting your tab off early. If there aren't any gender-neutral washrooms, Singer also suggests choosing a men's room over a women's room, since they are traditionally less crowded than other ones. The key to successfully pulling off this public sex experience is coming prepared — she needs to easily be able to mount you, and you need to be comfortable sitting down in a not-always-sanitary situation.
And for your exit strategy? Singer explains, "The trick here is that the guy needs to do the recon to make sure no one is in there and then sneak the gal in.
When finished, reverse the procedure to get her out of there unseen. In The Movie Theater Like a private restroom, the trick to making this rendezvous exciting and successful is going during a random time where not many people are in the theater. It's also important to make sure you select a loud movie — think action and adventure — that will muffle any moans or bodily sounds that either of your make.
May we suggest bringing a towel to lay down on the floor so you don't leave with popcorn stuck to your back. And which position is best? This makes it a little less obvious you are having sex, with the added bonus of both of you can also enjoy watching the movie," she says.
In A Parked Car Carlee Ranger If you want to minimize the risk of getting of caught but are still kind of interested in someone seeing you going at it, consider having sex in a parked car , potentially in a car garage.
Roudabeh Rahbar, licensed clinical psychologist in Southern California, says many of his clients have said they love having sex this way because it adds a voyeurism aspect to the affair. A car garage has the right balance of public and private, so it's an ideal place to go for your first public sex encounter.
Sex expert Coleen Singer adds that another appeal of this type of romp is the throwback vibes it provides. However, one of the biggest hurdles of making this happen is figuring out how to navigate and twist your no-longer-high-school-aged body to fit in a small car. Probably not — and the idea of getting it on far up above sea level is a turn on for many people. But here's the deal: If you are lucky enough to get a row to yourselves, wait until the flight attendants finish food and beverage service and get settled into their area in the galley for the night," Singer suggests.
Then, come prepared for your cover-up: Think the restroom is a better bet? Singer says the opposite, thanks to increased watchfulness of the flight attendants, "A restroom might seem like an option, but is far riskier than in your seats as the flight crew keeps a good eye on restrooms these days for security reasons," she explains.
That might not be quite as satisfying as you'd imagined, but it is a whole lot easier and less likely to get you in trouble. As Singer says, the best way to approach this ahem, sticky, situation is to let the driver in on the fun. One way to play this is to "offer the driver a hundred dollar bill to 'give you a little privacy. And though you might get turned on seeing your gal go at it on top of you, Singer notes to be mindful of the mess you make.
If it isn't a safe part of town, avoid it. There's no reason to put you and your partner in serious trouble just to enjoy a little exhibitionism.
That being said, if you're familiar with the park and the neighborhood, this can be a lot of fun. When there isn't anyone around — likely at nighttime — find a shady tree, bring a blanket and go at it. The best part of about this public sex idea is that you can afford to be a little louder because there likely won't be too many people around.
The main thing is to find a park that has a secluded or wooded area," Singer explains. You can use the blanket for cover, plus have a nice dinner after your romp! The Changing Room While you definitely get bored after, say, one minute, of shopping with your girlfriend, the thought that gets you through the many outfit changes is that she's butt naked behind that curtain or door. You've probably thought about surprising her while she's changing for a quickie. It's a fun fantasy but Singer warns that the task at hand won't be easy.
Hiking The Trails Forget a candlelight dinner for two, you and your gal love to explore the wild unknown — making trails and nature more of a turn on than aphrodisiac menu.
That's why getting it on while hiking might be on your romp bucket list. Singer says it's a smart concept because the great outdoors offers many options for sexual adventuring: Just don't leave home without a blanket. And after your orgasm? Check each other for ticks, Singer reminds.