In fact, water sex can be pretty dangerous for many reasons. Having sex underwater — or "submerged" sex — is simply not a good idea, especially for women. Here are some ways to get wet and wild without going below the surface. Staying Sexy But Safe While having sex in water is slippery fun, you still have to practice safe sex — and, unfortunately, if you plan on using a condom, you should know that water and condoms do not mix.
Not a lot of research has been done, but here is what we know: The other problem is an increased chance of the condom slipping off. That is not only nerve-racking but also awkward for everyone involved. Your best bet is to use a silicone lubricant , one that's not water-soluble and will make penetration a lot more comfortable for both of you. So where can you go to indulge in a little aqua love? Going public with your plan is out of the question, so stick close to home on this one. The problem with pool sex is the chlorinated water rushing in and out of your lady, which can cause damage and infection.
A good alternative is oral sex. Have your girl sit on the deck of the pool or on the stairs while you stand in the water, or vice versa. If your tub is small, you could have trouble in the missionary position. With shower sex , you get the pleasure of being wet, without the chance of too much water entering private areas.
For safety purposes, invest in some anti-slip stickers for the floor. The worst part about lake or ocean or beach sex is the sand factor. Somehow, even if you are extra careful, sand ends up lodged… places.
Instead, consider starting things off in the water, but then heading to dry land for the main course. Plus, you should be a fairly decent swimmer if you fool around in a lake or the ocean. And don't forget, if water sex is too much of a hassle, consider water foreplay instead. Perhaps a nude soak in the hot tub, a soapy scrub-down in the shower, or a late-night skinny-dip in a lake.